Tuesday, October 20, 2026

Blanketed with Love


Waiting for my entire 'life belongings' has been a journey of suffering. I have a lot of pillows and blankets that I can help them with.

I'm not sure where the hold- up is, but my feet have really suffered because my bicycle is still at 225, my North Face runners which I got at a bargain price from a woman who tried them and didn't like them... at a garage sale... they are a very good fit for my feet.

I am very concerned about my grandson. I'm not even sure he has a jacket. I called his other grandparents yesterday evening to see if he has had a bad incident. A baseball bat is for playing, not using against a child. Maybe Linnea and Walter could go there and do a little check up.

Do my children and grandchildren have food? 

I've been trying to help my sons. I am very concerned about their well- being.

I am even more concerned for my well- being, and my lack of an income, and my normal needs of safe housing, food, transportation.

I am just as concerned, for these things, for my children and grandchildren. 

I would love to invest in a 'paying dividends' company like Suncor Energy. My husband has had great returns on his invested money with that company.

Monday, October 19, 2026

All Keyed Up

 So, when I go get all my belongings from 225 5th Avenue, N.E., in Dauphin, the only person I will be expecting to be there is my husband, Warren.

If there are any other people there, I will be calling for security personnel for my safety.

I was threatened by a woman Warren dated in 2022. I am sure I will never see that criminal again but I can ask Warren if we are safe from that person.

The people who had keys for the house were Bergen and Shauna, Ken, Warren, and I had a key which Warren forced me to give up for my bras and underwear and my personal leather chair.

So, if anything is missing, I will insist Warren contacts all his family members to see if any of them entered the house without my permission, where my entire estate is in, including my 15 year legacy novel project:

The Orchard Walk El Dueck and inventory representing my novel. The 14 boxes of novels must also be in pristine condition as they were on August 29, 2026.

Bedroom 1

Bedroom 1- The first bedroom I renovated at 225 was the bedroom I slept in, the safe bedroom... being a very sensitive person I did not want to sleep in the bedroom where someone had, he said, accidentally, caused her own death.

I really wanted Warren and I to buy a different house, immediately, in 2022, but he said it was not, financially, feasible.

Elfrieda's belongings- Bedroom 1- This is how I remember things.

Armoire- Top shelf- on the left- Briefcase with ‘birth certificate,’ external hard drive, tax documents, divorce documents, Day & Ross retirement documents- stolen $209,000 by Elmer John Dueck.

Elfrieda Guenter pink inoculation ‘baby card.’

Elfrieda’s clothes- 5 shelves- bottom shelf- jewelry container with jewelry; two hats Warren purchased for me at Clear Lake.

(Middle of armoire- Elfrieda’s basket- I put Warren’s 17+ pair of underwear and socks, in there… then, I put Warren’s clothes on the right…)

Top of armoire- Warren’s clock- old… I never liked it.

To the left of the armoire, two chairs… one, vintage (owned by Anne P.- Warren’s Mom); the other chair, Elfrieda’s- cream ladder- back with rush seat- small chair- 35 years old) Under this chair- Elfrieda’s brand new down duvet, purchased at Mega Deals, $100+ dollars. A big pile of my recent clothes beside this chair many purchased at Super Thrifty, Mega Deals, and Gloria Gayle’s.

Beside armoire, on the right, small carpet… green with roses- cotton- I purchased that at rug store, where I worked, in 2008, gave it to my Mom and Dad and then, when they died, I took it back home with me. Mirrors leaning against that wall… My silver full- length- purchased at Zellers, Alfred Sung, White mirror, used to be gold, purchased at Home Depot, Empress Street, 2006. Square mirror- sand and silver;

The bed, itself, belongs to Warren, including the mattress. The only bedding that Warren owns is one pillow, and, if he has the quilt I made him, on the bed, then I am allowing him to keep that gift from me. Everything else, on the bed must be there for me to retrieve. The king- sized down duvet in a white ruched duvet cover, the other five pillows, the quilt I made with the floral back, the blush and hounds tooth blanket I made 15 years ago, the mattress cover I purchased.

On Warren’s side of the bed, a night stand I purchased in 2005, while living at 90 Forest Cove Drive. A watch I purchased for Warren (Christmas 2025)… solar, on the window sill.

On Elfrieda's side of the bed...  My round silver metal night table with my silver lamp- purple lampshade… a basket containing jewelry… some purchased at Aiken’s, a pale blue stone ring that I purchased from Aiken's with small stones on either side of the pale blue stone... one stone fell out already, some old, 46 years old… marriage rings from 1981, pearls… 7 strands or more… one strand of pearls was a gift to me… 40+ years ago, purchased at Birks. Under my side of the bed- my purple sherpa slippers, ready for me to wear this winter.

Closet- $15,000 worth of Elfrieda’s clothes and boots (size 7 ½ La Canadienne, size 7 ½ Miz Mooz- any of my other boots, size 7 1/2 & size 8 boots were stored in the grey 'Canadian Tire' cabinet I bought, in Dauphin. That cabinet had all my winter scarves, mitts, (my lovely cream llama wool mitts- I paid $65 for those at a craft sale, my red lace knit short finger gloves I purchased at a craft sale, many, many other mitts, and boots, and, two dustpan and broom sets, bottom right cubby- hole) and sandals and white metal oval container with lingerie, and scarves, and a pair of sweatpants I bought for my grandson Liam, which came back, RTS.

Double- sized sheepskin rugs- two, and one on the living room sofa, and a grey one in the gazebo.

This is a beginning list of what I know is at my 225 address and I will, fully, expect all of my estate to be intact. 


Novel Inventory- some of my novel inventory

 Some of my inventory items that I moved to 225 5th Avenue, N.E., in Dauphin because of my marriage to Warren David Justice.

I am still the sole proprietor of my novel and my work surrounding my novel but the impossibly long commute from Winnipeg to Dauphin required me to move my inventory to the place I had/ have it available to me, alone.

This is just some of my inventory. I am very concerned that it has not been damaged or mettled with.

Inventory

 

 

 

 

Artwork- Metal Stamps

 

 

Artwork- Prudence of the Parsonage

 

Bittersweet Buttercup pillow cases

 

Book Jewelry- Blue/clear stone Seahorse

 

Book Jewelry

 

 

 

Canadian Route' pillow cover

 

 

Chenille cushion cover (Autumn Fields)

 

Coro Brooch- deep copper stones

 

Coro Earrings (Bright Blue)

 

 

Copper Scroll pillow cases- standard size

 

Duvet- Blue Chevron- donated l 135 cost

Eiffel Tower (European size cushion cover) 1 only

Elvish- style vintage ring (blue lapiz lazuli)

 

Harlequin cushion cover (3)

 

 

Horse shams (2) European size

 

 

Horse cover Black velvet- cream crochet- dry clean

Jayne Holland pillow cases

 

 

King size pillow cases Navy/ White

 

King size pillow cases Blush- Willowherb Cabin

Matson 24 carat gold plated comb and brush set

Pillow cases- Christmas script- neutral colour

Pillow cases- Blue floral w red velvet trim and ruffle

Pillow cases- Deep blue floral velvet trim

 

R.A.F. WWII button

 

 

 

R.C.A. shoulder title badge

 

 

Red Cross Blanket

 

 

 

Red Cross Quilt Square Kit

 

 

Sherman Earrings- golden cognac iridescent stones

Silver plated comb and brush set

 

 

Snowberry Crocus Cushion Cover (European size) 1

Snowberry Crocus Denim Blanket (Holes/ Grey)

Tan and black Duvet donated  90 cost

Trail Honesty Cushion Cover (European)

 

Trail Honesty Lap Quilt (Whip- Stitch Edge)

 

Trillium Tact Blanket (Dk Blue Linen/ Cotton/Wool)

Vintage Brooch

 

 

 

Vintage Brooch- Onyx Starfish

 

 

Vintage Pearl Collar

 

 

 

Vintage Earrings- Rectangular Bone/ Silver

 

Winery Inn Book Jewelry (Picked Grapes)

 

Quilt- Grey & Purple

 

 

 

Quilt-Blue Cross w Green

 

 

Quilt- Lavender Hydrangea

 

 

Quilt- Velvet Stripes/ Sharp cut roses

 

Quilt- Norsyd Flax- 'Star of David'

 

Quilt- Longbranch Tenacity

 

 

Quilt- 'Love Cabin' (expensive)

 

Quilt- 'Cabin- Dahlia Eglantine')

Quilt- Kingcup (1 only) labour incl. not selling

 

 

 

 

 

Quilters Cotton Fabric Blue small roses 6@14 each

Quilters Cotton Fabric Blue large roses 9@14 each

Quilters Cotton Fabric Yellow large roses 7@14each donated to Value Village

Quilters Cotton Fabric Yellow small roses 4@14each donated to Value Village

Quilters Cotton Fabric Blush large roses 6@14each

Quilters Cotton Fabric White w roses 4@14each

Houndstooth Upholstery Fabric 3@14each

 

 

 

 

 

 


Sunday, October 18, 2026

Collecting Year(s)






 Let's talk hard core finances... I am going to do a 'estimates,' information just for the sake of trying to figure out what is 'righteous versus unrighteous.' 

Those are pretty big words.

'Righteous' means morally right, good, and virtuous.

'Unrighteous' means not morally correct, wicked, sinful, or acting against principles of justice and fairness.

Situation- This is for determining what is just, fair, and needful.

Husband Income- $45,000 per year

Wife Income- $900 per year

Husband and wife forced to split

Husband think, wrongfully, that he owns the house they share

Wife knows she has done the 'investment' work to upgrade a very humble house

Husband, wrongfully, thinks he can force wife from the house they live in together

Wife is given some very bad advice and calls a lawyer quite often

Obviously, from this simple equation, we can see who can afford to buy...

- Safe housing

-Food

-Transportation

So, these are going to be 'collecting years' for me. That is my mission. I have, this morning, already, declared to some 'family' members whom I will be trying to help this year and if they can give me money for  my needs. 

I await many responses for my requests for financial aid.



 So, I will need to calculate 'investment' returns, for myself. Part of my calculation will, of course, be all about usage, after finished projects.

Food will be a huge variance because of 'how much the husband eats versus how much the wife eats.' 

I am going to be working on 'labour input;' who used their vehicle to haul furniture, lumber, patio stones, vanity, tub, building materials, etcetera for the addresses in question.


I, Elfrieda, am really needing my white acoustic guitar... Make sure you don't use it or damage it.


Saturday, October 17, 2026

Marriage Novel


 I found this awesome website, this morning. 

Have you ever met someone, once, and then you didn't really think much about them again unless the man I married, mentioned them. 

Now, what's a little bit annoying to me is... all the things I would really admire and appreciate about people... are precisely the things my husband didn't mention.

If I had known that the 'Clear Lake' encounter was such a possibility of faith- inspired Biblical parallels of like-mindedness, regarding marriage, I would have tried to fetch out a few tips on that longevity.

I didn't really know whom I was meeting and it was a 'family time' for them so I didn't think much about the 'planned, chance encounter?'

For anyone, who hasn't read my novel, The Orchard Walk- El Dueck, they may not know that The Winery Inn is the main building on the crudely drawn site map, that I have in my Dauphin home, in my bedroom. I did display it at McNally Robinson, in May, 2013. I feel my writing is much better than my 'site map.' These pillow cases are my 'pillow talk' counseling inventory items. 




 

You know the saying..,
'Keep it real,' so I did.
These pillow cases, all made by Elfrieda, are part of my novel inventory.













So, The Winery Inn, in my fictional novel, hosts weddings, and any events that would be 'marriage and family based.'

I used creative license to 'lighten up' on the more difficult aspects of marriage by naming the cabins for WWII flower- class warships. Because many marriages have too much warring in them, it is best to think of foundational marital, covenantal commitments in such a large project. 

I bought 'Strike the Original Match' many, many, years ago. Originally published, when I was 17 years old, I was already looking for that blueprint of longevity.

To understand my novel, you have to understand allegory, history, and Biblical corollory.

Two characters, in my novel, who 'work at' the Winery Inn, are a divorced couple who don't have new partners. The woman's name is Abbey and that is, definitely, allegory, for the church. Abbey has a lovely peacefulness and a quiet, 'Class, not brash' character. Her husband is somewhat surly, intelligent, rebelling against organized religion and, yet, he has business as his main thrust and... you never know who rents out The Winery Inn in The Orchard Walk.

Friday, October 16, 2026

The Cost of Suffering

 I have not spoken with Warren since August 29, 30, 2026 about the cost of my suffering. He is aware that the financial investment I made into my marital property will be remunerated, by him, to Elfrieda. I suggested a fee, per month, for using the two projects that I completed at 225. Well, I actually did a lot more renovating than just the bathroom and gazebo but the dogs surely did wreck the floor after I refinished it. You can't imagine how a hot, sweaty dog, laying where it shouldn't, wreaks... havoc.

I really liked young Buhler. I'm trying to remember what he said that day, "You got your materials." Yes, that was it. I still don't know what he meant by that. Young Buhler knows how much gravel he dumped on the driveway when I was building up the back of the house. The earth had depleted at least 12 inches in depth. That is where I, also, laid the Barkman patio stones... Warren was at work when I used my truck to pick up all those stones from the Coop Building Center. They were so heavy, I had to pick them up in two loads. Warren helped a little with laying them. I did all the planning of where they needed to go. McMunn's had a few and I bought all they had of that style (the wood- look stones) and then filled in with a few grey ones.

I will be needing a lot of 'living income' to pay for this temporary dwelling I have been forced to sign for. It is a very unpleasant place to try to survive in and so expensive when there are no amenities in- suite, like washer and dryer. I did all of Warren's laundry for the entire four plus years I have lived in/ on my marital property. 

I really miss my microwave, (I bought that at Mega Deals.), etcetera.

I am sure Warren really appreciates all the cleaning I have done. He cleaned the tub, once, after we installed a new tub we bought at Home Hardware. Do you think I spoiled him too much?

I certainly hope he and his brother (the brother lives in a house trailer, out of town), have stopped dreaming of a new Lexus. I was really tired of that conversation. They were talking that nonsense in 2022, at Christmastime already. Ken never did buy anything new. I can't imagine how they can afford that. Warren's Veloster, which he bought out from his youngest son, is not a very practical vehicle. My 2014 van, which I bought in Dauphin, (after my truck was written off by the insurance company) is not in good enough condition to drive to Dauphin and back. I had an appointment to have something fixed but, a very terrible thing happened that morning and I was not able to get my van fixed. I think the same repair is needed, on my van, that the Veloster had fixed when the wheel fell off when Warren and Elfrieda were driving home from Clear Lake.

When we were at our 'most wealthy,' we only ate dinner, in a restaurant, once or twice a year. I cooked 363 days per year, making our dinner and sometimes breakfast and baking and gardening. This year my tomato harvest was stolen so I wasn't able to make that delicious sauce we lived on the entire winter, three winters in a row.

 

This is the man I cooked for... and renovated for... and he is going to give me so many blessings from my work on that property, where we got married, 225.

I was forced to survive in my white flip flops even though I have 35 years worth of my clothing and footwear at 225. I wasn't allowed to wear my white flip flops for two days, August 30, and August 31, 2026. I was forced to be barefoot. I was very sick on the 31st from all the germs on the floors I was forced to walk on.

My navy lace wedding dress I purchased at Super Thrifty. My magenta lace dress, floor- length, I purchased at Winners. My dark plum lace dress I purchased at The Bay. I wore the dark plum dress and the magenta lace dresses to Handel's Messiah... different years.

Shovelling snow... wow, Elfrieda shovelled and shovelled and shovelled that driveway, for four years.